Bright-sided
How the Relentless Promotion of Positive
Thinking Has Undermined America
by Barbara Ehrenreich
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Table Of Contents
| Introduction |
1 |
| Smile or Die: The Bright Side of Cancer |
15 |
| The Years of Magical Thinking |
45 |
| The Dark Roots of American Optimism |
74 |
| Motivating Business and the Business of Motivation |
97 |
| God Wants You to Be Rich |
123 |
| Positive Psychology: The Science of Happiness |
147 |
| How Positive Thinking Destroyed the Economy |
177 |
| Postscript on Post-Positive Thinking |
195 |
| Notes |
207 |
| Acknowledgments |
223 |
| Index |
227 |
Introduction
Americans are a “positive” people. This is our reputation as well as our
self-image. We smile a lot and are often baffled when people from other
cultures do not return the favor. In the well-worn stereotype, we are upbeat,
cheerful, optimistic, and shallow, while foreigners are likely to be subtle,
world-weary, and possibly decadent. American expatriate writers like Henry
James and James Baldwin wrestled with and occasionally reinforced this
stereotype, which I once encountered in the 1980s in the form of a remark by
Soviet émigré poet Joseph Brodsky to the effect that the problem with Americans
is that they have “never known suffering.” (Apparently he didn’t know who had
invented the blues.) Whether we Americans see it as an embarrassment or a point
of pride, being positive—in affect, in mood, in outlook—seems to be engrained
in our national character.
Who would be churlish or disaffected enough to challenge these happy
features of the American personality? Take the business of positive “affect,”
which refers to the mood we display to others through our smiles, our greetings,
our professions of confidence and optimism. Scientists have found that the mere
act of smiling can generate positive feelings within us, at least if the smile
is not forced. In addition, good feelings, as expressed through our words and
smiles, seem to be contagious: “Smile and the world smiles with you.” Surely
the world would be a better, happier place if we all greeted one another warmly
and stopped to coax smiles from babies—if only through the well-known social
psychological mechanism of “mood contagion.” Recent studies show that happy
feelings flit easily through social networks, so that one person’s good fortune
can brighten the day even for only distantly connected others.1
Furthermore, psychologists today agree that positive feelings like
gratitude, contentment, and self-confidence can actually lengthen our lives and
improve our health. Some of these claims are exaggerated, as we shall see,
though positive feelings hardly need to be justified, like exercise or vitamin
supplements, as part of a healthy lifestyle. People who report having positive
feelings are more likely to participate in a rich social life, and vice versa,
and social connectedness turns out to be an important defense against
depression, which is a known risk factor for many physical illnesses. At the
risk of redundancy or even tautology, we can say that on many levels,
individual and social, it is good
to be “positive,” certainly better than being withdrawn, aggrieved, or
chronically sad.
So I take it as a sign of progress that, in just the last decade or so,
economists have begun to show an interest in using happiness rather than just
the gross national product as a measure of an economy’s success. Happiness is,
of course, a slippery thing to measure or define. Philosophers have debated
what it is for centuries, and even if we were to define it simply as a greater
frequency of positive feelings than negative ones, when we ask people if they
are happy we are asking them to arrive at some sort of average over many moods
and moments. Maybe I was upset earlier in the day but then was cheered up by a
bit of good news, so what am I really? In one well-known psychological
experiment, subjects were asked to answer a questionnaire on life
satisfaction—but only after they had performed the apparently irrelevant task
of photocopying a sheet of paper for the experimenter. For a randomly chosen
half of the subjects, a dime had been left for them to find on the copy
machine. As two economists summarize the results, “Reported satisfaction with
life was raised substantially by the discovery of the coin on the copy
machine—clearly not an income effect.”2
In addition to the problems of measurement, there are cultural differences
in how happiness is regarded and whether it is even seen as a virtue. Some
cultures, like our own, value the positive affect that seems to signal internal
happiness; others are more impressed by seriousness, self-sacrifice, or a quiet
willingness to cooperate. However hard to pin down, though, happiness is
somehow a more pertinent metric for well-being, from a humanistic perspective,
than the buzz of transactions that constitute the GDP.
Surprisingly, when psychologists undertake to measure the relative happiness
of nations, they routinely find that Americans are not, even in prosperous
times and despite our vaunted positivity, very happy at all. A recent
meta-analysis of over a hundred studies of self-reported happiness worldwide
found Americans ranking only twenty-third, surpassed by the Dutch, the Danes,
the Malaysians, the Bahamians, the Austrians, and even the supposedly dour
Finns.3 In another potential sign of relative distress, Americans
account for two-thirds of the global market for antidepressants, which happen
also to be the most commonly prescribed drugs in the United States. To my
knowledge, no one knows how antidepressant use affects people’s responses to
happiness surveys: do respondents report being happy because the drugs make them
feel happy or do they report being unhappy because they know they are dependent
on drugs to make them feel better? Without our heavy use of antidepressants,
Americans would likely rank far lower in the happiness rankings than we
currently do.
When economists attempt to rank nations more objectively in terms of
“well-being,” taking into account such factors as health, environmental
sustainability, and the possibility of upward mobility, the United States does
even more poorly than it does when only the subjective state of “happiness” is
measured. The Happy Planet Index, to give just one example, locates us at 150th
among the world’s nations.4
How can we be so surpassingly “positive” in self-image and stereotype
without being the world’s happiest and best-off people? The answer, I think, is
that positivity is not so much our condition or our mood as it is part of our
ideology—the way we explain the world and think we ought to function within it.
That ideology is “positive thinking,” by which we usually mean two things. One
is the generic content of positive thinking—that is, the positive thought
itself—which can be summarized as: Things are pretty good right now, at least
if you are willing to see silver linings, make lemonade out of lemons, etc.,
and things are going to get a whole lot better. This is optimism, and it is not
the same as hope. Hope is an emotion, a yearning, the experience of which is
not entirely within our control. Optimism is a cognitive stance, a conscious
expectation, which presumably anyone can develop through practice.
The second thing we mean by “positive thinking” is this practice, or
discipline, of trying to think in a positive way. There is, we are told, a
practical reason for undertaking this effort: positive thinking supposedly not
only makes us feel optimistic but actually makes happy outcomes more likely. If
you expect things to get better, they will. How can the mere process of
thinking do this? In the rational explanation that many psychologists would
offer today, optimism improves health, personal efficacy, confidence, and
resilience, making it easier for us to accomplish our goals. A far less
rational theory also runs rampant in American ideology—the idea that our
thoughts can, in some mysterious way, directly affect the physical world.
Negative thoughts somehow produce negative outcomes, while positive thoughts
realize themselves in the form of health, prosperity, and success. For both
rational and mystical reasons, then, the effort of positive thinking is said to
be well worth our time and attention, whether this means reading the relevant
books, attending seminars and speeches that offer the appropriate mental
training, or just doing the solitary work of concentration on desired
outcomes—a better job, an attractive mate, world peace.
There is an anxiety, as you can see, right here in the heart of American
positive thinking. If the generic “positive thought” is correct and things are
really getting better, if the arc of the universe tends toward happiness and
abundance, then why bother with the mental effort of positive thinking?
Obviously, because we do not fully believe that things will get better on their
own. The practice of positive thinking is an effort to pump up this belief in
the face of much contradictory evidence. Those who set themselves up as
instructors in the discipline of positive thinking— coaches, preachers, and
gurus of various sorts—have described this effort with terms like
“self-hypnosis,” “mind control,” and “thought control.” In other words, it
requires deliberate self-deception, including a constant effort to repress or
block out unpleasant possibilities and “negative” thoughts. The truly
self-confident, or those who have in some way made their peace with the world
and their destiny within it, do not need to expend effort censoring or
otherwise controlling their thoughts. Positive thinking may be a
quintessentially American activity, associated in our minds with both
individual and national success, but it is driven by a terrible insecurity.
Americans did not start out as positive thinkers— at least the promotion of
unwarranted optimism and methods to achieve it did not really find articulation
and organized form until several de cades after the founding of the republic.
In the Declaration of Independence, the founding fathers pledged to one another
“our lives, our fortunes, and our sacred honor.” They knew that they had no
certainty of winning a war for independence and that they were taking a mortal
risk. Just the act of signing the declaration made them all traitors to the
crown, and treason was a crime punishable by execution. Many of them did go on
to lose their lives, loved ones, and fortunes in the war. The point is, they
fought anyway. There is a vast difference between positive thinking and existential
courage.
Systematic positive thinking began, in the nineteenth century, among a
diverse and fascinating collection of philosophers, mystics, lay healers, and
middle-class women. By the twentieth century, though, it had gone mainstream,
gaining purchase within such powerful belief systems as nationalism and also
doing its best to make itself indispensable to capitalism. We don’t usually
talk about American nationalism, but it is a mark of how deep it runs that we
apply the word “nationalism” to Serbs, Russians, and others, while believing
ourselves to possess a uniquely superior version called “patriotism.” A central
tenet of American nationalism has been the belief that the United States is
“the greatest nation on earth”—more dynamic, democratic, and prosperous than
any other nation, as well as technologically superior. Major religious leaders,
especially on the Christian right, buttress this conceit with the notion that
Americans are God’s chosen people and that America is the designated leader of
the world—an idea that seemed to find vivid reinforcement in the fall of
Communism and our emergence as the world’s “lone superpower.” That acute
British observer Godfrey Hodgson has written that the American sense of
exceptionalism, which once was “idealistic and generous, if somewhat
solipsistic,” has become “harder, more hubristic.” Paul Krugman responded to
the prevailing smugness in a 1998 essay entitled “American the Boastful,”
warning that “if pride goeth before a fall, the United States has one heck of a
come-uppance in store.”5
But of course it takes the effort of positive thinking to imagine that
America is the “best” or the “greatest.” Militarily, yes, we are the mightiest
nation on earth. But on many other fronts, the American score is dismal, and was
dismal even before the economic downturn that began in 2007. Our children
routinely turn out to be more ignorant of basic subjects like math and
geography than their counterparts in other industrialized nations. They are
also more likely to die in infancy or grow up in poverty. Almost everyone
acknowledges that our health care system is “broken” and our physical
infrastructure crumbling. We have lost so much of our edge in science and
technology that American companies have even begun to outsource their research
and development efforts. Worse, some of the measures by which we do lead the
world should inspire embarrassment rather than pride: We have the highest
percentage of our population incarcerated, and the greatest level of inequality
in wealth and income. We are plagued by gun violence and racked by personal
debt.
While positive thinking has reinforced and found reinforcement in American
national pride, it has also entered into a kind of symbiotic relationship with
American capitalism. There is no natural, innate affinity between capitalism
and positive thinking. In fact, one of the classics of sociology, Max Weber’s Protestant Ethic and the Spirit of
Capitalism, makes a still impressive case for capitalism’s roots in
the grim and punitive outlook of Calvinist Protestantism, which required people
to defer gratification and resist all pleasurable temptations in favor of hard
work and the accumulation of wealth.
But if early capitalism was inhospitable to positive thinking, “late”
capitalism, or consumer capitalism, is far more congenial, depending as it does
on the individual’s hunger for more
and the firm’s imperative of growth.
The consumer culture encourages individuals to want more—cars, larger homes,
television sets, cell phones, gadgets of all kinds—and positive thinking is
ready at hand to tell them they deserve more and can have it if they really
want it and are willing to make the effort to get it. Meanwhile, in a
competitive business world, the companies that manufacture these goods and
provide the paychecks that purchase them have no alternative but to grow. If
you don’t steadily increase market share and profits, you risk being driven out
of business or swallowed by a larger enterprise. Perpetual growth, whether of a
particular company or an entire economy, is of course an absurdity, but
positive thinking makes it seem possible, if not ordained.
In addition, positive thinking has made itself useful as an apology for the
crueler aspects of the market economy. If optimism is the key to material success,
and if you can achieve an optimistic outlook through the discipline of positive
thinking, then there is no excuse for failure. The flip side of positivity is
thus a harsh insistence on personal responsibility: if your business fails or
your job is eliminated, it must because you didn’t try hard enough, didn’t
believe firmly enough in the inevitability of your success. As the economy has
brought more layoffs and financial turbulence to the middle class, the
promoters of positive thinking have increasingly emphasized this negative
judgment: to be disappointed, resentful, or downcast is to be a “victim” and a
“whiner.”
But positive thinking is not only a water carrier for the business world,
excusing its excesses and masking its follies. The promotion of positive
thinking has become a minor industry in its own right, producing an endless
flow of books, DVDs, and other products; providing employment for tens of
thousands of “life coaches,” “executive coaches,” and motivational speakers, as
well as for the growing cadre of professional psychologists who seek to train
them. No doubt the growing financial insecurity of the middle class contributes
to the demand for these products and services, but I hesitate to attribute the
commercial success of positive thinking to any particular economic trend or
twist of the business cycle. America has historically offered space for all
sorts of sects, cults, faith healers, and purveyors of snake oil, and those
that are profitable, like positive thinking, tend to flourish.
At the turn of the twenty-first century, American optimism seemed to reach a
manic crescendo. In his final State of Union address in 2000, Bill Clinton
struck a triumphal note, proclaiming that “never before has our nation enjoyed,
at once, so much prosperity and social progress with so little internal crisis
and so few external threats.” But compared with his successor, Clinton seemed
almost morose. George W. Bush had been a cheerleader in prep school, and
cheerleading— a distinctly American innovation— could be considered the
athletically inclined ancestor of so much of the coaching and “motivating” that
has gone into the propagation of positive thinking. He took the presidency as
an opportunity to continue in that line of work, defining his job as that of
inspiring confidence, dispelling doubts, and pumping up the national spirit of
self-congratulation. If he repeatedly laid claim to a single adjective, it was
“optimistic.” On the occasion of his sixtieth birthday, he told reporters he
was “optimistic” about a variety of foreign policy challenges, offering as an
overview, “I’m optimistic that all problems will be solved.” Nor did he brook
any doubts or hesitations among his close advisers. According to Bob Woodward,
Condoleezza Rice failed to express some of her worries because, she said, “the
president almost demanded optimism. He didn’t like pessimism, hand-wringing or
doubt.” 6
Then things began to go wrong, which is not in itself unusual but was a
possibility excluded by America’s official belief that things are good and
getting better. There was the dot-com bust that began a few months after
Clinton’s declaration of unprecedented prosperity in his final State of the
Union address, then the terrorist attack of September 11, 2001. Furthermore,
things began to go wrong in a way that suggested that positive thinking might
not guarantee success after all, that it might in fact dim our ability to fend
off real threats. In her remarkable book, Never
Saw It Coming: Cultural Challenges to Envisioning the Worst,
sociologist Karen Cerulo recounts a number of ways that the habit of positive
thinking, or what she calls optimistic bias, undermined preparedness and
invited disaster. She quotes Newsweek
reporters Michael Hirsch and Michael Isikoff, for example, in their conclusion
that “a whole summer of missed clues, taken together, seemed to presage the
terrible September of 2001.”7 There had already been a terrorist
attack on the World Trade Center in 1993; there were ample warnings, in the
summer of 2001, about a possible attack by airplane, and flight schools
reported suspicious students like the one who wanted to learn how to “fl y a
plane but didn’t care about landing and takeoff .” The fact that no one—the
FBI, the INS, Bush, or Rice—heeded these disturbing cues was later attributed
to a “failure of imagination.” But actually there was plenty of imagination at
work—imagining an invulnerable nation and an ever-booming economy—there was
simply no ability or inclination to imagine the worst.
A similar reckless optimism pervaded the American invasion of Iraq. Warnings
about possible Iraqi resistance were swept aside by leaders who promised a
“cakewalk” and envisioned cheering locals greeting our troops with flowers.
Likewise, Hurricane Katrina was not exactly an unanticipated disaster. In 2002,
the New Orleans Times- Picayune
ran a Pulitzer Prize–winning series warning that the city’s levees could not
protect it against the storm surge brought on by a category 4 or 5 hurricane.
In 2001, Scientific American
had issued a similar warning about the city’s vulnerability.8 Even
when the hurricane struck and levees broke, no alarm bells went off in
Washington, and when a New Orleans FEMA official sent a panicky e-mail to FEMA
director Michael Brown, alerting him to the rising number of deaths and a
shortage of food in the drowning city, he was told that Brown would need an
hour to eat his dinner in a Baton Rouge restaurant.9 Criminal
negligence or another “failure of imagination”? The truth is that Americans had
been working hard for decades to school themselves in the techniques of
positive thinking, and these included the reflexive capacity for dismissing
disturbing news.
The biggest “come-uppance,” to use Krugman’s term, has so far been the
financial meltdown of 2007 and the ensuing economic crisis. By the late first
decade of the twenty-first century, as we shall see in the chapters that
follow, positive thinking had become ubiquitous and virtually unchallenged in
American culture. It was promoted on some of the most widely watched talk
shows, like Larry King Live and
the Oprah Winfrey Show; it was the
stuff of runaway best sellers like the 2006 book The Secret; it had been adopted as the theology of America’s
most successful evangelical preachers; it found a place in medicine as a
potential adjuvant to the treatment of almost any disease. It had even
penetrated the academy in the form of the new discipline of “positive
psychology,” offering courses teaching students to pump up their optimism and
nurture their positive feelings. And its reach was growing global, first in the
Anglophone countries and soon in the rising economies of China, South Korea,
and India.
But nowhere did it find a warmer welcome than in American business, which
is, of course, also global business. To the extent that positive thinking had
become a business itself, business was its principal client, eagerly consuming
the good news that all things are possible through an effort of mind. This was
a useful message for employees, who by the turn of the twenty-first century
were being required to work longer hours for fewer benefits and diminishing job
security. But it was also a liberating ideology for top-level executives. What
was the point in agonizing over balance sheets and tedious analyses of
risks—and why bother worrying about dizzying levels of debt and exposure to
potential defaults—when all good things come to those who are optimistic enough
to expect them?
I do not write this in a spirit of sourness or personal disappointment of
any kind, nor do I have any romantic attachment to suffering as a source of
insight or virtue. On the contrary, I would like to see more smiles, more
laughter, more hugs, more happiness and, better yet, joy. In my own vision of
utopia, there is not only more comfort, and security for everyone— better jobs,
health care, and so forth—there are also more parties, festivities, and
opportunities for dancing in the streets. Once our basic material needs are
met—in my utopia, anyway—life becomes a perpetual celebration in which everyone
has a talent to contribute. But we cannot levitate ourselves into that blessed
condition by wishing it. We need to brace ourselves for a struggle against
terrifying obstacles, both of our own making and imposed by the natural world.
And the first step is to recover from the mass delusion that is positive
thinking.
Copyright (©) Barbara Ehrenreich 2009
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